“Now these are the nations which the LORD left, to prove Israel by them…[4] And they were to prove Israel by them, to know whether they would hearken unto the commandments of the LORD, which he commanded their fathers by the hand of Moses.” (Judges 3:1,4)
Three times the Lord says he left the remaining Canaanites in the land to “prove” his people (Judges 2:22; 3:1; 3:4). Before we examine that aspect of this period, let’s first consider how they arrived at that point. The calamity of the time of the judges was brought on by a failure of parenting. This chaotic and sinful period of Israel’s history was characterized by “every man did that which was right in his own eyes” (Judges 17:6, 21:25). The reason why that first generation of adults raised in Canaan did what was right in their own eyes was because their parents failed in teaching them of the Lord and failed in teaching them that doing what was right in God’s eyes was the utmost priority above their own desires and flesh. The parents succumbed to the desires of their children, giving in to who they wanted to marry, rather than telling them No because God said you can’t marry the Canaanites. When a whole generation is raised by being given everything they want as children, instead of being told No by their parents because it’s contrary to God’s word, is it any surprise every man did what was right in their own eyes when they became adults? This is very relevant to us today because “gentle parenting” and giving the kids whatever they want, and allowing them to rule the household, is arguably the most popular parenting method of the world today. We are just now starting to see children raised by “gentle parents” growing into young adults, and it’s no surprise our culture is increasingly looking more like the time of the judges where every man did what was right in their own eyes. We need to understand and accept the reality that what we sow today as parents will be reaped by not just me, but by all future generations, for better or worse.
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